What Is Your Right Size?
There has been much written and lectured on “right-sizing” – for businesses, waist dimensions, and yes, even houses. In the design of a custom home, this question is always central to the discussion between new homeowners and their architect. There is no single right answer. And as it is for anything personal, the answer is different for everyone.
So, what is your “right-sized” home?
The answer lays in how you live – how you really live. Not how you think you want to live or aspire to live. This process takes a bit of soul-searching, reflection, and honest answers.
Your home should reflect how you truly live in your everyday life – your needs, your habits, your rituals, your locations of energy, and where and how you spend your quiet time. This last point, by the way, is perhaps one of the most important ones. This is the time in which we can be calmed, re-energized, and inspired. This is where we get the fuel to get through so much of what we do day-to-day. Even this space should be carefully calibrated to its occupants and their quiet time rituals.
An interior designer friend and collaborator of mine has recommended to her clients the “95% rule” – designing a home according to how owners spend 95% of their time. I thought this was brilliant, and I have shamelessly stolen her concise statement and used it often with my clients.
The best homes fit their owners like a custom-tailored suit – not too much fabric in some places (waste of money), not too tight in other places (annoying!) – feeling perfectly natural and perfectly sized so that it’s a consistently pleasant experience. No excesses and no pinch points. Your home should feel the same way.
A right-sized home just feels right to its owners. One test and measure is whether the homeowners go about their day in their home without any sense of obstructions for which they have made forced compromises – awkward paths through cramped spaces, backing up for a wrong-swinging door, or mentally preparing for knee-aching steps where there shouldn’t be any (mostly an over-60’s issue). The list is long. But none of these annoyances happen in a well-designed custom home.
Imagine you are going about your daily functions in your home, or even in that favorite spot you have reserved for quiet time, and you become conscious of how you feel in that moment. Imagine a feeling of contentment, of balance, of calm, of rightness in that moment. Beyond all the necessary and important functions a home provides, it is this experience that the best custom homes give to their owners.
This is what we do.